Saturday, February 6, 2010

My sweet Boy!

Okay....a little more serious post....Trey a couple weeks ago had two bad ear infections and the Dr at the wee care put him on some antibiotics and told us that he thought it would be a good idea to see the ENT who had done his tubes because he was worried one of his ear drums had a hole in it. Well, a couple days ago Trey was over his fever but still pulling at his ears. Ryan took him to the dr to make sure the infection was gone...and it was, but then started another issue....His Dr is worried about Trey's speech. In the back of my head I have worried about it too, but brushed it off in denial. The first thing that came to my head was the scary word.... AUTISM. I know this is SOOOOO lame and "in the movies" but I swear the past couple weeks I have seen things about Autism all over...driving...random websites....it's everywhere.
Photobucket
At this point we still don't know what is going on with Trey and he has an appointment with the ENT on Monday. We are hoping and praying that he says that all he needs is another set of tubes and it will fix him up and he will start talking like other kids his age. I have had a constant prayer in my heart for my baby boy. I have shed some tears over it and I don't know that I should be (in the post before...like I said, I am shooting right to the worst case scenerio...dang me...why do I do that?) Anyway...we are hoping for some good news from our awesome ENT on Monday....I'm thinking a blessing is in order.
I love my baby boy so much and just want him to be a healthy growing boy who will give us crap as a teen! Am I crazy for hoping for that?
Photobucket
I had to share this picture....I love it so much....his cute chubby hands holding a baseball bat and a car....his two favorite things lately!
Muahhhhh!
big kisses to you Trey!
.
Update...
.....Okay so I guess that I am in trouble for sharing my thoughts on my blog (which is kinda my way of journaling, makes no sense)....So here is what we know as of now....nothing really....just that Trey isn't talking as much as other kids his age and the dr is just wanting to get that fixed. If it is his ears....great....if he ends up needing some speech therapy...good....and if it turns out to be the worst case scenerio and be mild autism....then we will deal with it as it comes. Ryan is irritated that we are getting calls about it...but the truth of the matter is that I am just a nervous mother that doesn't have any answers right at this moment and my mind wonders. So no one worry and I will update when we find out what is going on. Thanks for the concern...we really appreciate it!

3 comments:

Anonymous said...

LOVE that picture to ali!
speaks millions....so CUTE! :)

Things will be JUST fine. remember HF is in charge...trey will always be takin care of. Wether not he has a journey ahead of him or not. he will be takin care of and LOVED! :) :)
and he has amazing parents!!
did you read my POST about that baby story? if you haven't I suggest you do. Might help you....
love you and YES a blessing will be so wonderful for him....
keep us posted.
we will be thinking of you!!!!

XOXO!

Liseylew said...

At this moment Im not sure I like your doctor.. LOL.. It implies that my sons who are very normal and intelligent had some kind of problem when they were toddlers. They were just late bloomers, Lane a little more than Grey. Lane had speech therapy and behavorial therapy, and they eased my mind by telling me it was mostly because he was a little brother that he didnt develop his language skills till he was almost four. also that he had ear infection during a crucial time in his development.
Let me know if I can help..

The Quintana Family said...

I hope everything turns out ok. Keep us posted for sure. Don't feel bad for sharing your thoughts on your blog. That's what it's there for. I jump to worse case scenarios in everything too, so I know exactly how you feel. We will keep Trey in our prayers :)